Find out… What Men Want

Discover What Men (Of Any Sign) Really Want and Need From You To Feel Close And Connected From Now On…

Stand out from all other women in a man’s mind by knowing how to “speak his language,” and truly understand him. Uncover the confidence that comes from knowing how to respond to him in every situation in such a way that he can’t help but be impressed… and want to keep you around forever.

Dear friend,

If you’re a modern woman living in the 21st Century, odds are you’re CONFUSED by men… While relationship studies the world over have found that men and women are more alike than different, the ways we’re different are MAJOR, and can and DO cause tremendous pain and agony on both sides.

And it’s such a shame, because while our differences feel so personal, often the issue at the root of the drama isn’t personal at all – but is instead something universal. Probably you’ve noticed, for example, that when you really want to talk about something “sensitive” like where your relationship is headed, or what he’s really feeling… men typically don’t.

You may be confused as to why men don’t open up as easily as your girlfriends do, or seem to resist when you try to “help” him or give advice…

And don’t you hate it (’cause we all do) when men seem to clam up, and withdraw, giving us the “silent treatment” or worse – disappear for a while?

Why do they DO that?

That’s right – that thing the man in your life (or the guy you like) does or says to you that feels so awful likely has nothing to do with you. It’s just him being “a guy.”

And that thing you say or do that makes him super annoyed/upset/shut down/angry/fill-in-the-blank toward you is just you being a “woman.”

You know, like talking too much about your problems (because it makes you feel so close to him

– but makes him want to crawl under a rock), asking him to share his inner-most thoughts,

wanting to plan a future together while he seems focused on the moment.

This stuff has been driving men and women nuts throughout the ages.

But it’s gotten a lot more complicated of late (I’m sure you’ve noticed).

Things aren’t like they used to be…

Why not? For two reasons:

Reason #1: The Women’s Movement was successful… in fact, a little too successful. Women are now graduating from college, law school, and medical school at a higher rate than men. What does this mean? It means, for many of us, we can no longer expect to “marry up” by finding a nice guy who is “older, richer, smarter, taller…” than we are.

This is partly to blame for the fact that more women are single now than ever in the history of the world… there are literally more educated, successful, amazing women all looking for love in the same (shrinking) pool of men.


Reason #2: Thanks to the internet, and the incredible success of internet dating, there’s a (false) feeling in the culture that “love is just a mouse click away,” and that there’s an endless supply of fantastic people to find, meet, and fall in love with at all times.

Both men and women think this, actually… thus many singles have become ridiculously unrealistic in their expectations of who they’ll end up with, causing them to be too easily “spooked” on early dates, believing they can and should “have it all” in a mate…

In other words, one wrong move (or attitude/ outfit/ hairdo/ comment/food in your teeth) from you and he’s G-O-N-E.

Put reasons #1 and #2 together, and it’s no wonder that women are having such a hard time connecting with men these days.

This is why it’s so important to know how to stand out in a sea of amazing women by knowing how to make men feel great around you– by knowing just how to navigate their world.

That’s right – having a “winning” strategy with men by knowing just what to say and do in every situation with them – when you “bump” into them during chance encounters, on first dates, when you first decide to be intimate, in the first weeks and months of a relationship, and once you’ve made a commitment is more critical than ever to your odds of meeting, finding, and keeping a great relationship with a man you actually want.

Although I’ve made it my life’s work to advise women on matters of the heart, I’m always surprised and astounded to hear what MEN, specifically those who make a living giving love advice, have to say about dating, sex, relationships and love.

Fortunately, I know a lot of those guys (call it an occupational hazard)…

I know men who have worked with HUNDREDS and even THOUSANDS of men in their line of work, so they know men inside and out.

Whenever I get together with these awesome male relationship experts, we talk about this stuff… I just love “picking their brains” and finding out what they think (and better yet – what the men they work with and hear from think!) that could help me to help women even more.

And much of the time the things they tell me are things I’ve never read in a book or “study” before.

Often the gold comes from them sharing their own experiences in their own love lives, as well as the feedback they’ve heard from clients…

So one day it hit me: I had to get my favorite male relationship experts together and “pick their brains” officially – with recording devices present and “on” – and get it all down for posterity for you.

Put reasons #1 and #2 together, and it’s no wonder that women are having such a hard time connecting with men these days.

I invited seven of my favorite male relationship and dating coaches to sit down, one at a time, for an interview. I talked with each of them for over an hour about all the things I hear again and again from women that challenge them most in their dealings with men.

Talking to them about “what men want” was even more revealing and powerful than I expected.

We covered some of the most pressing questions, such as:

  • When is it okay to sleep with a guy for the first time? (All but one of them had the same answer… And the guy who didn’t is the sex expert – so maybe we should listen to HIM.)
  • Is it okay to ask a man out or call a guy? Or do they really love “the chase”?
  • On dates, who should pay?
  • Why do men “disappear” so easily? And why can’t they just TELL us they’re “not feeling it”?
  • How can we spot (and avoid!) the bad boys?
  • How can we tell if a guy isn’t ready for a relationship, even when he’s saying and doing all the “right” things?

And we covered advanced material as well, such as:

  • Why don’t men TALK more? Especially when we NEED them to?
  • What do men most want from us in bed? (The answers from thousands of men in a survey will shock and impress you!)
  • What do they fear most in love?
  • What makes them fall in love (why do they NEED us)?
  • What is their core need and main goal in all of their interactions with us? (In other words, what are men thinking at ALL times?
  • And no, it’s not about sex…)

And, best of all...

  • What makes them want to commit?
  • Why do I trust these particular men? And why should you?
  • Well, not only do I know and adore them all…
These guys are super accomplished. Almost all of them are the authors of MULTIPLE books. One has a radio show with thousands of listeners. One has had over 200 major media appearances, one was featured in The New York Times, The Los Angeles Times, on “The Today Show,” and in an internationally best-selling book. One is a Harvard educated medical doctor. One has an online following of over 1 million readers. One teaches “dating boot camps” to men all over the U.S. and England (for a HUGE price tag!), one has a massive following on Facebook, one spoke on sex at the Ted Conference…

And they’ve had their share of women… boy, have they!

One dated over 300 women he met online, and is now happily married with a baby. One has been divorced three times (and still believes in love). One was married almost twenty years, and has since become a serial monogamist. One meets gorgeous women who want to go home with him pretty much daily. One is divorced and madly in love with a woman a decade older than he is.

So their personal experience “runs the gamut.”

And their professional experience and accomplishments are super impressive.

Here’s the MAN-TASTIC lineup:

Evan Marc Katz

Billed as a “personal trainer for smart, strong, successful women,” dating coach Evan Marc Katz has been helping singles find love since 2003. He’s the author of three relationship books, including bestseller, Why He Disappeared. He has been featured in The New York Times, The Wall St. Journal, and Glamour, and appeared on CNN, “Today,” “The Early Show,” “The Tyra Banks Show,” and “The Rachel Ray Show.”

Scores of Evan’s private clients have fallen in love, gotten married, and started families – all with just a few months of coaching. Whether you’re online dating, dating or embarking on a new relationship, once you learn to understand men from a MAN’s point of view, you’re going to be a very powerful.

David Wygant

David Wygant is an internationally-renowned dating and relationship coach, author and speaker. Through his boot camps, personal coaching and online writing, his advice has transformed the dating lives and relationships of hundreds of thousands of people from every corner of the globe. His funny — yet always direct — approach to dating, sex and relationships has revolutionized how people meet and interact with the opposite sex. Since 1998, he’s become one of the most frequently-quoted dating experts in the media. He offers his advice as a writer for The Huffington Post, Ask Men and across television segments, newspapers and magazines, including MTV, The New York Times, MSNBC, Fox News, Cosmopolitan, Men’s Health and E! Entertainment Television — as well as on over 2,000 ,radio shows.

Jonathon Aslay

a.k.a. “The Guy Spy”.

Jonathon is a successful entrepreneur, coach, speaker, and the author of Understand Men NOW ~ the Relationships Men Commit to and Why and “ONLINE DATING SECRETS REVEALED.” He teaches the Do’s and Don’ts of Internet Dating and helps women become date and relationship ready. Jonathon’s journey to teaching women how to find love started after his own divorce. Through the course of over 10,000 hours of coaching women as they shared their heartbreaking dating stories, Jonathon found his true gift and passion as a Heart Champion for women. Jonathon is A GUY SPY to the male mind who truly understands the way a single or divorced man thinks and acts. He’s a master at helping women distinguish the difference between men who are looking to get laid from those who are truly ready for love. Through his heart-centered, radical honesty coaching style, he helps answer the questions that baffle women most when it comes to dating, mating and relating.

Larry Michel

Nicknamed “The Love Finder” Larry Michel is the Founder of the School of Genetic Energetics, and a Master ERPª (Energetic Relationship Professional). He is a breakthrough relationship coach, trainer, speaker, entrepreneur, producer, radio show host, and author. As a partner at, he has created a system that instantly delivers an understanding of the impact and expanse our energetic relationships. His one-on-one connection to clients and companies around the globe is in constant high demand. Larry has one primary objective for all of us… get fully present, embrace what you are with complete love (flaws included) and enjoy every precious moment. There will be no shortage of amazing people to share the joy with.

Adam Gilad

A prolific writer and thinker about how we love or block love, Adam, a Stanford University Graduate Humanities Center Fellow, veteran of Indian ashrams, Buddhist monasteries and advanced Jewish study, lives to spark his readers and clients into creating a robust, daring and fearless life and, ultimately, expansive relationships. The Phd/ABD is a dating and communication expert, writer, entrepreneur, father, thinker and spiritual adventurer. His wicked, but wise sense of humor was showcased as the co-owner of National Lampoon Radio. He has explored themes of courage and service in his Emmy-award nominated work in television, live storytelling, university teaching and elite private coaching. Adam brings together a unique mix of New York humor, global wisdom traditions, advanced education and usable spiritual practices that has attracted a following in the dating and relationship industry of over 40,000. He has authored countless audio trainings and written four books, specializing in learning the “language” of the other gender, cultivating a dance of the sexes rather than a battle, the play of sexual polarity and fearlessness in self-awareness, self-evolution, compassion and forgiveness.

Christian Carter

Christian Carter, author of the mega bestselling ebook, “Catch Him and Keep Him,” has helped millions of women attract and connect with men by giving them an understanding of what makes a man feel Emotional Attraction and the desire to stay connected and committed to one woman. He integrates a variety of research in his work including human and evolutionary psychology, biology, biochemistry, neuro-linguistic programming, and other meta-models of communication.

But even more than his research, Christian provides advice from the perspective of a man who has been pursued, pressured, “dated around” and been in committed relationships. He effectively bridges the gap between the sexes, empowering women to understand, once and for all, “what he’s REALLY thinking” in order to inspire his lifelong love and devotion.

Alex Allman

Alex Allman is the author and creator of the bestselling REVOLUTIONARY SEX books and programs for both men and women, to help them enhance sexual pleasure, create deeper intimacy and communication, and achieve greater sexual confidence. He’s helped tens of thousands of men, women, and couples enjoy more intimacy, passion, connection, and pleasure in their sex lives, and is a sought-after speaker and teacher in teleclasses, seminars, and radio shows.

Dr. Ali Binazir, M.D.

(Bonus from my “Interviews With Enlightening Experts” series)

Dr. Ali Binazir is the author of “The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman’s Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible” (the highest-rated dating book on in December, 2011), “The Best Dating Advice I Ever Got,” and “The Tao of Dating: The Thinking Man’s Enlightened Guide to Success With Women.” He holds an A.B. from Harvard College, an M.D. from the University of San Diego School of Medicine, and a Masters in Philosophy from Cambridge University. Formerly a consultant at McKinsey & Co. to the Fortune 500, he writes a popular column for “The Huffington Post” and maintains a hypnotherapy practice in Los Angeles. He is committed to helping you become the happiest, most fulfilled version of you.

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Still on the fence about this program?

Not sure if it’s your cup of tea? If that’s the case, we’ve got some phenomenal bonus materials for you from a few of the gentlemen above and some others I adore (ah, so many great male relationship experts, so little time! ;))… take a look below and feel the power of their wisdom!

Bonus #1: Charles J. Orlando

The hilarious and well-written internationally acclaimed book, The Problem With Women… is Men (Vol. 2, eBook edition).

Relationships. Marriage. How do they work, and why don’t they last? Charles J. Orlando has some brilliant insights as to why… And the world seems to agree! Since the launch of The Problem with Women… is Men: Vol. 1 in 2008, his advice page on Facebook has grown from a small following of 600 Fans (March 2010) to over 575,000+ “Likes” two years later, with the increase in awareness driven purely on word of mouth, and with over 60% of fans returning every month. His approach is one of reality and balance, steering clear of techniques that sound good in a clinical book/setting but are nearly impossible to apply when you throw in the reality of life (kids, bills, jobs, shifting dynamics, outside influences, etc.).

Bonus #2: Evan Marc Katz

“Why He Disappeared”

An audio interview with Evan Marc Katz – topics covered include:
  • How to understand a man’s agenda on the first date.
  • A few steps that will guarantee that you get a second date every single time, even if you’re nervous about a guy.
  • Why the next guy has nothing to do with the last guy and how that will change the way men relate to you.
  • How to tell if a man is serious or if he’s just a player

Bonus #3: David Wygant

“How to Speak ‘Man'”

An hour-long video, in which David covers:
  • Why men are incompetent when it comes to women
  • How to harness your amazing power to attract men
  • How to get men to do almost anything you want
  • The incredible truth that men are terrified of women, and what we can do to help them overcome their fears and be eternally grateful.

Bonus #4: Jonathon Aslay

“5 Ways to Stop Him in His Tracks”

A written report that reveals:
  • The secrets no man will tell you: What really works to attract a man – and what turns him off.
  • The simple (and fun) three-step flirting technique that immediately lets him know you’re interested.
  • How to draw attention to yourself without being aggressive or overwhelming.
  • How to confidently make the first move – trust me: he’ll be THRILLED you did!

Bonus #5: Mat Boggs

An exclusive interview with Mat Boggs!

A true difference maker, Mat Boggs has dedicated his life to increasing Love in the world one heart at a time. Mat has co-authored the best-selling book, Project Everlasting: Two Bachelors Discover the Secrets of America’s Greatest Marriages.

As a highly sought after speaker, and relationship coach, Mat has helped women globally to understand the hearts and minds of men, create major breakthroughs in love, and attract the relationship they want.

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What Women Are Saying...

I listened to 2 interviews so far… AMAZING… thank you…
– C.L., Los Angeles, CA
I bought your series What Men Want! OMG what a great series! I loved it – so much great information and lessons – from men! I am so glad you did this – I feel so enlightened and educated. I did also by Adam Gilad’s book The Right Man Online and Evan’s book Why He Disappeared – also very, very good. I just loved hearing you on the series! Hugs,
- S.B., Dallas, TX
Dear Carol,

I want to thank you so much for the ‘What Men Want’ series you did. I am a coaching student of Evan’s currently and through his weekly emails became aware of your series and ordered it. I love it! I have learned so much more from you in this series than any other single thing in my 55 years of living! Amazing stuff!

I’ve started putting a lot of it into practice, along with Evan’s excellent coaching, and I’ve got guys coming out of nowhere! Love it!

So thank you from the bottom of my heart. You are such an inspiration to me. Bless you!

Much Love
- C.G., Richmond, VA
Hi Carol,

I wanted to thank you for sending me What Men Want! OMG!! I just started listening to it… I am almost done with David Wygant. I LOVE HIM!! He is awesome… I am going to start practicing in the mirror and trying what he suggests… everywhere I go.

I am really looking forward to listening to the rest… I just had an ahhh hah moment listening to this… I just told my 12-year daughter tonight that I can’t wait for her to listen to this when she is older… I wish I had this info. in my 20’s.

Anyway… I wanted to let you know how thankful I am and how amazing this information is and truly helpful. I can’t wait to listen to the rest. I have to go bed otherwise I’d stay up all night listening to the rest and be exhausted.
- J.G., Los Angeles, CA
Hey Carol!


This new program “What Men Want!” is AMAZING!! I’ve heard 2 amazing men (not in order-since I jumped to listen to them because I’m familiar with their work) and I LOVE how you asked them specific questions, and always let them know that most women that are listening want a relationship, want to get married so WHAT advice can THEY give on love, sex, sexuality etc…and how you, Carol, feel about all those issues as well. I love the interaction you had with each guy (even though I’ve only heard 2 guys so far—will be on the 3rd guy once I finish this email, lol) and you letting us know about the books, newsletters, websites they have so if we choose, we can look into them on our own which is so cool! Thanx!

You always up the ante and strike GOLD with your anvil and loupe with each and every one of your programs (and I speak from experience!).

I am heading to listen to the 3rd fabulous guy you interviewed now….I will email you once I’m done—I may listen to them a second time too! lol

Love ya’ and THANX again!
- W.V., Brooklyn, NY
OMG. These guys are fantastic. I’m getting re-inspired to keep going through the disappointments of online dating… and I’m only on interview #4.

Carol, this stuff gets better and better. It’s like having you in my living room!

Larry Michel’s info blew my mind. I’m gonna put these interviews on CD’s and play them in my car 50 times so that I get the lessons.

Can you tell I’m really excited?
- V.M., Huntington Beach, CA
These interviews are absolutely amazing – I love, love, love it!

David Wygant is so conversational and so direct. And your interview with him is hilarious! I will never think of Whole Foods, I mean “Whole Pickup” the same way again! LOL.

Thank you for all the work you do – it really makes a difference!
- C.T., Westwood, CA

Imagine if you knew JUST what men were thinking… and were no longer ever confused by them. And no longer had any (real) conflicts with them, because you found them so easy to get along with and because you knew not to take things personally the way you used to when you didn’t understand men better.

What would that do for your life? What would that do for your relationships with them – and not just the romantic ones, but all of them?

Imagine having amazing charisma with ANY man because you know the secret to make him feel so good around you that he wants nothing more than to make you happy… and will go out of his way to be your hero.

Imagine knowing exactly what to do or say to make him fall in love with you and want to share himself with you, talk to you, commit to you, without struggle, without tiresome, heavy “talks” and without wondering why he says one thing but does another.

If you’ve never experienced men that way… then I promise you this program – and the wisdom of these eight men – will change your life.

Men are great – if you know how to inspire their greatness.

This program will tell you how.

And stand back and be amazed…

I can’t wait to hear your success stories! Please let me know how it goes.

Much love,

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